pitkin88 wrote:Mr.Bluelegs wrote:Has there ever been a thread on this site that didn't dissolve into fighting?
If anyone dares slight Alice then his minions come to his defense. Part of the problem is the closeness this site has to the artist and people connected to the artist. If there wasn't that connection TB's comment probably would probably have petered out rather quickly. However there are some that must defend to the death Alice in the hopes of getting brownie points so it drags on and on. It is what it is and will continue to be.
Respectfully and I am not trying to start an argument with you but hopefully I can make a point. Criticism is one thing especially if it is done in a civil manner, but many times these things are turning into all out brawls. Sometimes I think to myself and years ago I got into one argument as well (in which I was wrong and apologized for that), that with "fans" like some of us claim to be, who needs enemies.
The truth is this is a relatively small forum when it comes to the number of users we have and that is unfortunate. I would argue that we have lost many good posters with relevant things to say because of all the fighting. I certainly have considered leaving this forum many times myself. People get really brave behind a keyboard and frankly it is time for everyone to take a breath and think about the tone of what is being posting and said.That goes for all of us.
But and I have nothing against you personally, but you rarely have anything decent to say about Alice's solo career. It is one attack after another which goes past constructive criticism. If you like the original band, great. I personally enjoy the original band and his solo work both. In fact, I probably like his solo work a little bit more but that's just me. The original band wasn't perfect either. It is one thing to offer constructive criticism (for instance I don't think Along Came a Spider is a particularly good album and I don't think it was very well-produced), another thing to constantly bash and bash. This forum is for Alice's entire career not for one period.
In addition and this is definitely not aimed at you directly, but we have a few users who constantly pick fight after fight with a select few users. Many of those exchanges should be done in private because it causes the threads to go off topic and for those who are trying to contribute to the discussion, it makes people less likely to post and in some cases runs off users.
As I said constructive criticism is one thing, constant never having anything good to say is something else. If a person has no use for Alice's solo career or the original band for that matter, then they should find an artist they do like. Why would they keep coming to a board to fight with others and constantly criticize the music and business decisions of someone they seem to not particularly like as a person and/or performer. Just my two cents and I hope I haven't offended anyone with my comments,that was not my intention.